Been seeing some Forum Topics that were started by woman.  Also seen “reviews” left by wives.   It’s sad that they need to come on here and vent or try to get “answers”.   Shouldn’t they commute with their husband or boyfriend if they have issues?  I can’t verify if they really are a woman behind the username.  Manti Te’O got catfished and so can Mongo. 

There were instances where we had women asking about erotic massages and the community accepted her. We all love happy endings.  That was what we had in common.  But I’ve been seeing a different trend.  Women are posting about their marital problems. Blaming her husband’s mongering ways for the reason the marriage didn’t work out.   They come on and want to share their story.  They also ask the reasons why men monger.  There are also “reviews” that try to belittle us.  They sound like it’s written by women that try to shame us for writing about our exploits at massage parlors.  What to believe and what to allow these rants on the site are making me reach out to fellow mongers.  I would like to hear your opinions on this matter.  We are a pretty open community.  It’s interesting that they want to get inside information from complete strangers.  The main question they have is what makes a monger tick?  There have been many great, insightful replies and also ones that are mean spirited.  But who is to say is the right answer? 

I hope whatever they seek to find out about our hobbying ways opens their minds and eyes.  They will probably never be able to understand it, but they can see our passion for this activity.  We enjoy it and will defend it from trolls, hacks, and people that just love to criticize.  So ladies, don’t be shocked if you read things that doesn’t fit your worldviews.  We are going to tell you like it is for the most part. Take it in and see it from our point of view.  It’s the old predicament on marriage: expectations vs. reality.  Every situation is unique.  By getting several viewpoints on here you can see how others have handled it. That can be useful.  But there is no magic cure to save a marriage.  We can’t provide it here; neither could Cosmo, Dr. Phil, Oprah, or anyone claiming to be a relationship expert. 

So for now, let’s take a wait and see approach.   Ask away, sign up for an account, and read about the hobbying world.  The site will welcome you.  Just know that it is moderated and not a free for all.  We certainly don’t want to be inundated with trolls or vindictive exes passing their negativity on here.