Lets get a count of hands of guys that have gotten upsold in one way or the other at a parlor.  I look around the room and it seems that every guy has raised their hand.  It's something that is a very natural occurrence at a parlor and most guys have a negative reaction to it.  It is such a mood killer when you are rubbing her legs to signal extras and while the masseuse is good with giving you more, she makes sure you know that every little thing costs extra.  Touch her ass, extra.  Touch her tits, extra.  Touch her legs more, extra.  Touch her cooch, extra.  Say more than ten words to her and have her talk back…yep you guessed it, extra.

The only thing not extra is to reject all these extras and just get a regular massage.  But if you do this, the masseuse will help turn the massage into a nasty experience because she knows that she will have two things coming her way.  First, she has to actually massage you for the duration of the session and if it is a 60 minute session, that is 60 minutes of hard labor. Second, she knows that after the 60 minutes of hard labor, she will probably get a less than adequate tip.

In terms of this transaction, it is in the best interests of both to get what they want.  For the masseuse to make more in tips and for the monger to get a very happy ending.  So, how do we make that happen?  Mongers need to realize that in this game, they will get upsold more often than not. They need to set their expectations that they will get upsold and go with the flow within reason of course.  They should go into the encounter with a set amount of money.  If they end up leaving with no money in their pocket, they will be content.  It is all about the perception of overpaying for something.  But if you don't feel like you have overpaid and the masseuse gets her money for a job well done, everyone is happy. 

Mongers have explained in their reviews that they sometimes lay the tip on the table to let the masseuse know their intentions.  This is essentially the same as emptying your pockets and gives you a far better chance to get the service you desire.  You have shown her your cards and if she is good with it, then you will get the relief. If she is not, at least you have done all you can.  At this point, you can cut your losses.

I know the tipping thing is a very touchy subject, so what do you guys think are the best ways to get the best results.