I've notice how some members mentioned their wives in the reviews, comments or forum topics.  So I wanted to see if you guys think this hobby either hinder or help the relationship?  This topic is for marriage only.  Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not legally binding.  Married guys have more to lose if they end up in divorce court.  So let's stick to guys in holy matrimony only. 

So let's discuss the Cons first.  It will probably ruin your marriage if she finds out.  While I'm sure some guys wouldn't consider it cheating, their wives will definitely feel otherwise.  Men often have different notions of what defines cheating than woman.  "But I just kissed her when I was drunk!  That's not cheating."  "It was just a massage. I can't help if the nice lady's hands went exploring down under..." And so forth.  Cheating is cheating.  If your significant other wasn't the one that made you cum, it's cheating.  And then of course there is the guilt.  Lying to her every time or knowing that you are hiding this from her can make you feel guilty.  Unless you are a sociopath.  Then who cares what she thinks.  And financially it could hurt your marriage if you have limited budget and sharing bank account.  You could be over spending on this hobby, while the funds for your living expenses shrink.  It would be hard to explain to her.  Then an argument would ensue.  

Ok, hope I didn't frighten everyone off lol.  There are some upside.  Mongering helps because you get to release the sperm.  Health studies have shown that ejaculation helps men's prostate.  It makes us all relax.  We become happier, be in a good mood.  That maxim of happy wife = happy life, applies to us too.  When we're happy, we treat our wife better.   We have to have an outlet to release the little swimmers.  Many of us got into this hobby, because things dried up at home.  Or certain sex acts got closed once that ring goes on her finger.  Many of my married friends complain how blow jobs is the 1st thing to go when they got married.  It even goes before the paycheck in some cases.  When we go massage parlors, these needs gets taking care of.  There is no judgement from these ladies.  They will tend to our needs with no strings attached.  Cash is the only expectation.  The masseuse offer us a stress free environment.  We get to be somewhere where we are pampered.  And then we get to orgasm at the end of it.  We go home much more relaxed; ready to face whatever life throws at us.