Hey everyone, I wanted to touch on a particular topic that may not be the easiest to talk about, but one that should be addressed on these forums because it’s become a topic of discussion amongst my friends and myself and I’d love to see the responses that the rest of the RM community has on the issue.  And as always, what is said on Rubmaps, stays on Rubmaps. =)

Have you been going to MP’s and seeing the same provider over and over again?  Have you built a tight connection with one particular masseuse that goes beyond just getting the rub and tug? Ultimately, do you think that AMP’ing ever makes you fall in love? And if so, have you been so turned off by the neo-feminazi movement in America that you have considered trying to build a relationship outside of the MP or checking out an international matchmaking site?

Primarily, the women that work at MP’s come from Asian, Latin American, and Eastern European countries, so let’s begin by defining the differing characteristics between the “Eastern” and “Western” woman (as well as some of the complaints that I’ve heard or read from these forums/message boards).

Western Women: 

• ·     The philosophy of love and marriage in the West is to marry the person that you love. 
• ·     These women tend to be more career-driven and pushing a me-first attitude, looking to get married at a later age.
• ·     40-50% of all marriages end in divorce, while 70% of those divorces are initiated by the woman.
• ·     Typically seen as more materialistic and interested in the type of car that the man drives or the house that the lives in and the clothes that he wears, predominantly because these women grew up in the wealth of America.
• ·     These women tend to be more dominating and demanding of high expectations of the man. They view themselves as the leader in the relationship.
• ·     Overall, these women tend to be more masculine and modern.
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• Eastern Women: 
• ·     The philosophy of love and marriage in the East is love the person that you marry.
• ·     These women are more family-oriented and put the family first, before their career and look to get married younger.  While women from these cultures have become a bigger part of the workforce, they typically give up their careers to take care of the family more often than Western women.
• ·     80% of marriages with a mail-order bride have been deemed as “successes” with only a 20% divorce rate for you fellas that aren’t too sharp on the math.
• ·     While financial security is a necessity, most of these women haven’t grown up in a society of wealth so they don’t have the same level of expectations with the materialistic goods.
• ·     The man is seen as the leader of the household while the woman is much more submissive.
• ·     Overall, these women tend to be more feminine, conservative, and traditional.

Obviously, not ALL Western and Eastern women are going to fall neatly under these characterizations, but there’s a reason why these stereotypes exist.  Now, let’s say that you are interested in starting a relationship with a woman that comes from this Eastern mode of thinking.  Would you want to import a Russian/Eastern European bride or would you rather go for an Asian woman? Russians/Eastern Europeans are definitely more exotic and gorgeous, with taller frames and more curves to their bodies. They also have sexier accents and at least from my experience, let’s say that they are more liberal and free in the sack ;). But for me personally, although I generally find Russian women more beautiful and striking than your average Asian woman, Asian women tend to be better cooks (I really love all types of Asian food and it’s something that is more readily available and common in the American diet.  I really have no clue whether I’d want a diet that’s primarily made of borsch and caviar from my Russian mate) and housekeepers and do a better job with the family overall.  On top of that, Asian women tend to keep their looks longer as well so that’s a big plus for me because I’d like my mate to be as attractive for as long as possible for the obvious sexual reasons and to boost my appearance as a man. But, this is purely my take on the subject so I’d greatly appreciate any of the opinions that the rest of Mongo nation has to say.